Thursday, September 22, 2011

How do i get my husband to do something for me without nagging?

my blazer need new seals it has been taken apart for two weeks. all that is left is the timing needs to be done and oil changed. my husbands jeep needs an oil change too we have all the oil and pan he just wont do it. he gos through a whole tank of gas in three days. he is getting new parts for the jeep and i am thinking about hiding them till he gets my blazer done. we have no food in our house and he wont take me to the store cause he says he can drive the jeep even through he drives it too work every day. last night i asked him to change the oil in jeep he said yeah sure hunny. did he nope. he is getting mad at me cause i have to send him to the store every night for food. but he wont let me go. sorry if i nagged but it has been like this for two weeks. what can i do. he has all the tools for the job, he works on truck for aliving but his job right now is sending him to classes. he says he is tired when he gets home he wakes up at 8 and gos to be at 8. i am up at 6. please help i just want my blazer fixed. so i can drive it. thanks for any help.How do i get my husband to do something for me without nagging?Try telling him until he sorts out your blazer you are not getting him any food. and if it is not done by (give him a deadline) then you will pay someone to do it. or do it yourselfHow do i get my husband to do something for me without nagging?hahaha !



good luck with that!How do i get my husband to do something for me without nagging?Start calling a girlfriend and get a ride to the store. Do you have a credit card or money to have someone else fix it? If you have the resources, have it towed to a shop.How do i get my husband to do something for me without nagging?Ask him to get it done by weeks end. If he doesn't - hand him the food shopping list and let him know that you'll be at home to help unload the groceries when he's done. Make him do every annoying chore on the planet that requires a vehicle and he'll soon enough get the message...When he does complain about going to the store simply say - If my truck was fixed you wouldn't have to go...How do i get my husband to do something for me without nagging?I now you said you and him don't have the money, but try a friend or relative that lives close by and see if he/she would lend you some money. They can always get paid back later when you and your husband manage to to pay that person back. if he tells you, %26quot;Why did you have to borrow? That's just another bill we have to pay.%26quot; tell him that you told him over and over but he would not do it. By the way, it sounds like he doesn't trust you with the jeep. I wish both of you the best and hope things get better. See if he will go for some counseling.